I need a helpmeet
christiaachiever
Cambridge, Ontario | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Most of my life I’ve been in an exciting blend of Christian ministry and various entrepreneurial endeavours. As I look back over my last fifty years – in Christianity, in business, in ministry and even in the ordeals of life I can see that virtually every episode in those fifty years has been used to prepare me for what I am “yet” to do – in this ministry.
In 2011 I founded two corporations along with five websites and countless pages of support material. One corporation has an emphasis on Bible teaching and evangelism; the other has more emphasis to minister to the more temporal needs (finance, health, family and relationship) of people’s lives. From 2012 until early 2019 I was focused on my writing. I deferred efforts for evangelism, expansion, fundraising, etc. Over the years I’ve written over 10 major books (in excess of 4,000 pages in 8x11 formats).
In 2015 I had three stroke “episodes” which most certainly have encumbered and delayed my “comeback”. During this period I suffered from with aphasia, challenges speech, word retrieval, short term memory loss, problems with math/numbers and fatigue. Like many other stroke victims some of my abilities have been impaired, but my basic intelligence has remained the same. However, gone are the days of being a public speaker. I know I still have much I can still do with what I do have. But now, post stroke, I needed to adopt a different perspective. Now I strive to “Never put off till tomorrow that which you can get someone else to do today”. Hence part of my goals and plans are to build a team of writers, speakers, teachers and others for “The Evangelism Team”.
Now, in early 2019, I am at “the point of new beginnings” – a new startup. Now it’s time to begin the next phases of developing this dynamic Christian ministry. Ahead is an enormous undertaking, but God willing, it will happen! It’s said that it takes three elements to make a successful endeavour: the right plan, the right people and the right money. We have “the right” plan. Now we need “the right people” and to assemble the “Evangelism Team”.
Unabashedly, a fundamental aspect of this is to secure a “helpmeet” – a marriage partner who also has a fervent passion for serving God together in “our” ministries. Over the years I have both seen and tasted of couples who worked together in business or ministry endeavours. Many of them had the kind of fun and purpose filled marriages and lives that I also wanted to share with that someone special.
What am I looking for? Regarding looks, my “perfect” mate would be attractive and “classy”. Effective use of cosmetics, hair styling and clothing are far more important than height or weight. Regarding nature, my “perfect” mate would be outgoing, easily mixing with people (and enjoying it). She would also be optimistic, ambitious and even daring. At the same time she would be kind and thoughtful. Regarding background, my “perfect” mate would have likely have grown up in a similar background and lived a similar life with experience in either or both business and ministry. I’m looking for a soulmate in four ways: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. There has to be physical attraction, most certainly (what she does with what she’s got than what she starts with). There also must be a mental affinity, being able to talk freely about concepts and ideas. Very important is the “emotional” soulmate aspects (things like verbal affection, support, etc.) And, of course, the spiritual soulmate aspects are most critical (including the aforementioned sharing of ministry together.
In 2011 I founded two corporations along with five websites and countless pages of support material. One corporation has an emphasis on Bible teaching and evangelism; the other has more emphasis to minister to the more temporal needs (finance, health, family and relationship) of people’s lives. From 2012 until early 2019 I was focused on my writing. I deferred efforts for evangelism, expansion, fundraising, etc. Over the years I’ve written over 10 major books (in excess of 4,000 pages in 8x11 formats).
In 2015 I had three stroke “episodes” which most certainly have encumbered and delayed my “comeback”. During this period I suffered from with aphasia, challenges speech, word retrieval, short term memory loss, problems with math/numbers and fatigue. Like many other stroke victims some of my abilities have been impaired, but my basic intelligence has remained the same. However, gone are the days of being a public speaker. I know I still have much I can still do with what I do have. But now, post stroke, I needed to adopt a different perspective. Now I strive to “Never put off till tomorrow that which you can get someone else to do today”. Hence part of my goals and plans are to build a team of writers, speakers, teachers and others for “The Evangelism Team”.
Now, in early 2019, I am at “the point of new beginnings” – a new startup. Now it’s time to begin the next phases of developing this dynamic Christian ministry. Ahead is an enormous undertaking, but God willing, it will happen! It’s said that it takes three elements to make a successful endeavour: the right plan, the right people and the right money. We have “the right” plan. Now we need “the right people” and to assemble the “Evangelism Team”.
Unabashedly, a fundamental aspect of this is to secure a “helpmeet” – a marriage partner who also has a fervent passion for serving God together in “our” ministries. Over the years I have both seen and tasted of couples who worked together in business or ministry endeavours. Many of them had the kind of fun and purpose filled marriages and lives that I also wanted to share with that someone special.
What am I looking for? Regarding looks, my “perfect” mate would be attractive and “classy”. Effective use of cosmetics, hair styling and clothing are far more important than height or weight. Regarding nature, my “perfect” mate would be outgoing, easily mixing with people (and enjoying it). She would also be optimistic, ambitious and even daring. At the same time she would be kind and thoughtful. Regarding background, my “perfect” mate would have likely have grown up in a similar background and lived a similar life with experience in either or both business and ministry. I’m looking for a soulmate in four ways: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. There has to be physical attraction, most certainly (what she does with what she’s got than what she starts with). There also must be a mental affinity, being able to talk freely about concepts and ideas. Very important is the “emotional” soulmate aspects (things like verbal affection, support, etc.) And, of course, the spiritual soulmate aspects are most critical (including the aforementioned sharing of ministry together.
Sign
Libra
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
More about him
How often do you go to church?
As often as possible
Do you attend bible study?
As often as possible
How often do you read the bible?
As often as possible
Do you attend prayer groups?
No
Do you go to Confession?
No
Have you been through confirmation?
No
Have you been baptized?
Yes
How often do you expect your partner to attend church?
Once a day
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Sales / Marketing
My Job Title Is
President
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Exercising
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Getting acquainted over a quiet dinner.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Sorry, I can't think of anything I haven't already tried.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Denomination Is
Other
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
To serve God and fulfill His will for my life. My plans are to achieve my goals through the ministries and books I have prepared.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Biography, Business, Health, Religious, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is
Helping others achieve their dreams.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Godliness. A "helpmeet". Someone "fun". Someone "ambitious" and on the same wavelength re "purpose" and "beliefs".
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed