I am an honest, no nonsense type of gal

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

First impression, I can be viewed as a very serious, well put together and inaccessible. However, my friends will tell you that I am laid back, warm and can be very silly at times. I am the person who they turn to for advice and objective direction. A good friend even referred to me as a "Crustacean”, hard on the outside but soft on the inside. My kids are very important to me. My eldest lives away from home; my high schooler lives with me and the youngest alternates between homes. Entertaining family and friends, especially during the holidays is a favorite of mine. Listening to motivational CDs and inspirational music helps me to get through tough times. I am open to socializing and having meaningful conversations on any topic. At the same time, learn from that person's personal experiences. I am looking for a clean cut, well put together distinguish gentleman, but a "Friend First". Someone who is spiritual, honest, open and not afraid to share his feelings. Someone who is confident, and not easily intimidated by a woman with a strong personality. Someone who takes pride in his personal appearance and his home. Once we establish that mutual respect for each other, everything else will fall into place . . . the sky is the limit. I expect to be treated like a lady. I can truly appreciate a gentleman who still opens doors, gives me his coat if I am cold, and is the first to call and initiates advancing the relationship at the right time. I am a hopeless romantic and like a man who has no problems showing his romantic and sensitive side.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Slender

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Lips

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Sports, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

My ideal first date can be summarized as dinner with good food and conversation in a relaxed setting . . . just getting acquainted with each other.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool

My Denomination Is

Non-Denominational

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Dramas

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional

My Idea Of Fun Is

Go to St. Augustine for the weekend, spending time at the beach, discovering it's history. Also going to Trinidad for Carnival.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed