Merry widow, ready for love again

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Widowed, for the second time, nearly 5 years ago, I am ready for a new relationship. Both husbands died from cancer, but I am pleased to have been happily married twice, many don't even get that once in their lifetime. I am the marrying kind, and enjoy being in that sort of a committed relationship.

I am active, I am intense. I have been described as having a personality larger than life, which serves me well in my daily activities. I love having projects to work on, I am an academic, I love playing with words and ideas, I am inquisitive, I am ebullient (apparently), but definitely always happy, and I love living life to the full. I do not suffer fools gladly, neither do I judge, and respond best to a mutually respectful interaction.

I have two sons who married in 2007 and both have presented me with grandchildren Dec 2007 and April 2008, and my youngest son and his partner had a son in August 2008!!. Life is very sweet!

I am an academic, I enjoy 90% of my job, I am a musician, in many guises. I love skyping with my children and grandchildren. i like technology, and have ad an iPhone since they first came out.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Coffee at a neutral venue in the afternoon. Time to look each other over. If no connection, then nothing is lost. If there is a connection, then go for a walk, and make plans for the rest of the day.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Bungy Jump

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Goofy, A Flirt

My Denomination Is

Other

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To be the best that I can be, as a child of Almighty God. To do good for all those with whom I have contact. To make a difference that continues long after my life is over.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Dramas, Situation Comedies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Romance, Drama, Documentary

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, I'm A Recording Artist, Jazz, Soul, Gospel

When I Read, I Always Read

Biography, Classic, Computers, Music, Mystery, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire

My Idea Of Fun Is

By Myself: Saturday morning, two newspapers, no chores to do. continuous green tea, followed by brunch.
With a partner: walk in the fabulous local gardens, followed by a snack and coffee at the local cafe, playing 'footsie' but with hands. Off to a movie, and then dinner, followed by a coffee and his or mine, a time on the sofa, of mutually pleasurable 'interaction' and then home to mutual beds, with promise of things to come.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Are you confident in yourself? Do you have your own interests? Can you hold an interesting conversation? I would like to find the man with whom I can spend the rest of my life in companionship with mutual caring, respect and possibly love. My Christian faith is central to who I am, I will not contemplate being 'unequally yoked.'

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed