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iris1lover

Merced, California | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
hedonist because I believe in living a full, rich life. Having said that I am Christian, a minister, a widow, and haven't been doing this dating thing for quite a while. About my history: retired from the Navy in 1989, had my own businesses (3) until 2006 when I entered Unity Seminary in Missouri. I tried church ministry and didn't care for the politics. I'm starting my own 501(c)(3) with the intention of reaching people who have had difficulty with God, religion and church.
Next year I plan to tour Europe.
What I believe: I look for the good in people, situations, myself, and life. I read the Bible and I disagree with the idea that God is anything other than a loving creator.
I live with a minister roommate and our four old cats and a kitten. I love cuddling with a cat and reading a murder mystery. My favorite wine is Merlot, although I only seem to drink it when my sister visits. Other interests are volunteering with Love INC, gardening, working out at the gym, good movies, tasty food, hanging out with friends and a new one online dating.
I am a member of the Friends of Bill W for over 30 years. I like direct, from the heart communication. Laughing is a favorite pass time, at my cats, life, and myself.
I'm looking to connect with a man who shares my interest in ministry, connections with people, activities which include travel, good food, and interesting experiences.
Sign
Gemini

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Hair
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Director
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Dining, Exercising, Internet, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Tv, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Coffee or lunch
I've Always Wanted To Try
A cruise ship vacation
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Someone They Want To Be

Views

My Denomination Is
Other
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
To be balanced in all areas so that I have a full, rich, life.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Country, Gospel, Jazz, New age, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Fiction, Home & Garden, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Religious
My Idea Of Fun Is
Board games and dinner with friends; cuddling with my cat and a good mystery; teaching a class to people interested in spirituality; a long massage.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Common ground seems to be a difficult thing for most men to share with me since I have such a varied history of the military, business and now ministry. I'm looking for someone who can find common ground with me and explore new things as well.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Committed