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enp133

Belfast, New Zealand | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a kind-hearted person and hence, I value kindness above all else in a partner. Although, if you're a blonde mountain biking supermodel that would certainly be a bonus! Seriously though, kindness and honesty are where it's at.
I am honest and shy among strangers. I'm not into fashion although I'm happy for a partner to spend money looking good.

I enjoy being a little bit different - even more so than my other intellectual engineering friends. Life with me would not be about one-upping the neighbours, taking over the family business, buying a middle-class house in the suburbs and joining the golf club - unless nobody else was doing those things! I firmly believe that people should strive to become more interesting as they get older, not the other way around. After all, with age comes knowledge, skill, wisdom, and money - why waste all that settling down and starting families like the previous generation did?

I would class myself as a casual greenie, i.e., I recycle, use fabric supermarket bags, bike when the weather is fine, and am carbon neutral. I would hope to have a partner appreciative of the world's pollution and energy issues and try to achieve sustainable living where convenient without getting too extreme about it. If you don't know much about this kind of thing but are willing to learn, that's cool too.

I'm not particularly interested in travel (although I have visited a handful of foreign countries when attending conferences) as I see it as poor value financially and very hard on the planet. My dream home would be an ultra-modern high rise apartment in the city (the most sustainable form of urban living). However, I work in the Christchurch suburbs doing energy research engineering so that is where I currently flat and can't see that changing any time soon. I currently have the perfect job and a very stress-free lifestyle and would be quite happy living in Christchurch for ever. I like to keep the house clean (I'm easily the tidiest of my 3 flatmates) and modern. I'm not particularly interested in gardening although I appreciate a nice-looking garden if the property has one.

I'm looking for either a partner with similar interests to share activities with or equally good would be a partner who was happy to let me go off and do things alone. I enjoy mountainbiking, tramping and orienteering. However, these are only some of my many hobbies and I only get out a few times per month so am not looking for a SUPER KEEN outdoors person. Indoors I enjoy TV, movies, video games, and board games. I like learning and often attend public lectures and talks about topical events in our world. I also like working on projects in my shed (I am currently building an electric car) but I don't expect a partner to be very interested in that! I am also considering, this year, volunteering to be part of a construction project to install a solar powered water pump in a remote village in Tonga (yeah, I know I said I'm not really into travel but I can be persuaded if it's for a good cause). I also enjoy the occasional restaurant dinner, drinks with friends etc. I am fascinated by human behaviour and how it influences our lives - identifying the ridiculousness in life's people/politics/decisions etc and appreciating genuine cleverness when it oh-so-rarely occurs. If your favourite TV shows include Simpsons, Daily Show, 7 days, etc, and you appreciate the social commentary of Monty Python then you probably think along similar lines. Must love cats.

I was raised Anglican and although me and my family's church-going has lapsed, I would prefer to have a Christian partner (fairly flexible as to your definition here) and would not mind a regular church-goer.

Finally I should mention my 2 absolutes: No kids or dancing. Seriously I don't have the patience to be a good parent (I think it's unfair to bring up a kid if you aren't going to give it 100%) and there are too many people on the planet already. And dancing is just pointless.
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Libra

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Green
My Ethnicity Is
European
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Research / Science / Engineering
My Job Title Is
Hydrogen Energy Research Engineer
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Shy, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Sports, Learning, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Cars, Camping, Gambling, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Extreme Sports, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Someone once said it's a hard road finding the perfect woman. So I guess an an ideal date would be one where I found her.
I've Always Wanted To Try
A trip to the sets of Wipeout, Ninja Warrior, and MXC where we get to try out the courses. Does any travel agent offer this?
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Obscure, Goofy

Views

My Denomination Is
Anglican
I Attend Services
Once A Year
My Political Views Are
Green Party
My Goal In Life Is
To make the world more sustainable. I may not want kids but I want the world to be nice for those that will inherit it after me.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

Taste

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Computers, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
Anything that gets the adrenalin going a bit, especially if it involves being creative and having to exercise the mind as well.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
Someone who is caring and respectful of others. Someone who loves animals. Also good if you are willing to learn and discuss things and be prepared to accept new ideas. Someone willing to constantly better themselves through education and learning experiences of all sorts.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed