Best friend and love for life
cafekid
Fresno, California | Frau Suche eine/n Mann
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Englisch, Französisch, Spanisch, Andere
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Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Fit
Meine Größe ist
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Meine Augen sind
Blau
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Single
Ich habe Kinder
Ja - nicht zuhause
Ich möchte Kinder
Nicht sicher
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Augen
Körperkunst
Bauchnabelpiercing
Mein Haar ist
Braun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Katze, Hund
Bereit umzuziehen
Ja
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Teilweise Hochschule
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Selbstständig
Meine Spezialität ist
Bau / Handwerker
Mein Job-Titel ist
Painter
Ich lebe
Alleine, Mit Mitbewohner(n), Mit Haustier(en)
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Nein
Ich trinke
Nein
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Außenseiter
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Aufmerksam, Offen
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Trainieren, Lesen, Lernen, Musik, Filme, Familie, Essen gehen, Fotografie, Religion/Spiritualität, Theater, Reisen, Kochen, Gartenarbeit, Camping, Ehrenamtliche Arbeit
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Versuche neue Dinge, Filme, Entspannen, Schlafen, Extremsport, Ein Buch lesen, Sich aufstylen, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?
Ich wollte immer schon versuchen
Jumping
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich, Cool, Mysteriös, Albern
Ansichten
Meine Konfession ist
Nicht-konfessionell
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Einmal pro Woche
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe
Mein Art Humor ist
Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern, Mysteriös, Witzig
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Nachrichten, Cartoons, Dramen, Filme
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Klassik, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Lating, Stimmungsvoll, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Nachrichten, Auto-Biografie, Biografie, Comic, Fiction, Geschichte, Anleitungen, Musik, Politisch, Bezug, Poesie, Technisch
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...
or, coffee
or, coffee
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Intelligenz, Gutes Aussehen, Humor, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Einfühlungsvermögen, Sensibilität, Kühnheit, Seltsamkeiten, Spontanität, Esprit, Nachdenklich
Wonach suchst du?
No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
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