Widow Starting Over

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am honest, fun loving, non-smoker, stubborn bull headed Swede, loyal. I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes, reading mysteries, flea markets, traveling, cruises, exploring new places, dining out and a movie or concert or theater.
I have been a widow for over 18 years, recently I have found I don't enjoy going places and doing things alone anymore. But, I am not desperate, I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person. I know what I want and don't want. If you were honest with yourself, you'd probably agree with me, thats what you want too.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 2 (1.57 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Retired

My Job Title Is

Retired/No title

I Live

With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Camping, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Games, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Probably meeting at a cooffee shop or someone where for lunch, as long as its quiet enough to talk and get to know each other. If there is no click and we are uncomfortable with each other, there is no reason to go any further. If we click then, we can get together and decide what we want to do and go together.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Ask Me Later

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Denomination Is

Pentecostal

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Not Sure

My Goal In Life Is

Ask Me Later

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Gospel, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, Mystery

My Idea Of Fun Is

cooking, reading, traveling, cruises, movies, concerts, theater, gin rummy, listening to good music

What Do You Find Attractive?

Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

this may sound off the wall, but here goes. I'm looking for a senior, retired, widower. Reason is he is probably set in his ways and values his alone time and his own space. But he is still willing to let me into his world and share his interests. He does not want a clingy woman hanging on to him 24/7.
Now I think this could work for both of us because at our ages, its different from the kids. I may be wrong, if I am, I'm flexible.
Now I do not want some young stupid stud wannabe looking for a cougar. Thats not me, don't waste either of our time, because I won't even bother to respond. Nor will I respond to anyone wanting me to help him raise his kids. I'm just too old for that, I'm selfish, I want to enjoy the rest of my life, doing what I enjoy. If I sound selfish, good, its about time.
Now, if I haven't scared everyone else away, good, I hope to hear from you. I don't bite, honest...

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Committed