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JLHToo

Indianapolis, Indiana | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
Humble, Honest, Loyal and love to laugh.
This would be more how my friends would describe me; Giving, tenacious, persistent. I never meet a stranger, I am confident and considerate, a gentleman with a few good old fashioned values left, but not a "stick in the mud" because of those values. I list having children not at home, well, to be clear, I had one son. Unfortunately he was killed in 2004, at the young age of 18. It is amazing what I, as a father/adult, learned from an 18 year old, about life and living. I am not bitter over it and can speak of it with no problems, I prefer to remember and not push it under a rug.
I love to laugh and make others laugh as well, even if it is at me, as I have no problems, laughing at myself. In fact, I do it daily even when no one else is around.
"A person can be judged, by how he acts, when nobody is watching"
This a good start, there is much more, and we'll save that for another time, should we have that "other time".
Thanks for reading, good luck to all in your search
p.s. The "strategically placed tattoo", I have yet to actually get. It is in memory of my son. So at the moment, I have no ink.
Sign
Pisces

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Stocky
My Height Is
6' 3 (1.91 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Hands
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog, Other
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Contruction / Craftsman
My Job Title Is
Engineer/Architect
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Observant, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Family, Internet, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Anything that gives us a chance to speak and see one another. My idea of "playing dress up", going to a reasonably nice place for dinner, but dressing nicely for one another.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Wow, not enough space, but a balloon ride, "snowmobile" camping trip, Jeeping trip in the mountains, vacation on a small Island, travel over seas, flying (a plane or chopper)....Making my own beer/wine. I can go on and on. "too large of a bucket list"
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Someone They Want To Be

Views

My Denomination Is
Non-Denominational
My Political Views Are
Not Sure
My Goal In Life Is
I say my friends would describe me as "want to be me", just to clarify, "want to be (like) me", a survivor that perseveres through most anything. As for my goal, this is a big part of it. I am not so much about me while living, but more of what I am to others when I'm not around. I want to build my "last home", but with someone who will appreciate it. I strive to be the best person every day, learn something new every day, meet someone new, every day. Leave others with a smile on their face, make people laugh. Mostly, know that god will always be there, maybe not feel like it, at that very instance, but in the end, you just know.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Jazz, Pop, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Biography, Business, Comic, Computers, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Religious, Science, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
Wow, this is tough,there is so much. Play cards, ride bikes, take a drive/road trip, picnics, cooking, tinkering, the list is almost endless with a creative mind.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
First, the eyes, they are the window to the soul, from there, the smile, then, I am not so particular that I need a specific hair/eye color combo. Each person is a unique individual. I appreciate a woman that looks nice, is attractive (doesn't have to be a calender girl). I'm not "Movie Star Hunk", just kinda simple really, but I appreciate one who is not to big, not to small, and has a personality that makes up the rest.
We are all beautiful in our own ways.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed